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合江县人民医院牙齿修复地包天拔牙美牙冠怎么样好吗成都新桥医疗口腔牙科门诊部超声波洗牙好不好Well, one month later,一个月,之后I had a lot of data, and I was able to do another analysis.我收集了大量数据,足够再分析一回And as it turns out, content matters a lot.结果发现,内容很重要So smart people tend to write a lot --聪明的人,往往写很多 — —3,000, 4,000, 3、4千5,000 words about themselves,甚至5千字,自我介绍which may all be very, very interesting.也许真的,非常非常有意思The challenge here, though, is that但,很难匹敌the popular men and women最受欢迎男女are sticking to 97 words on average精选的that are written very, very well,97个字even though it may not seem like it all the time.虽然我们不一定,感觉得到The other sort of hallmark of the people who do this well高手们的另外一个杀手锏is that theyre using non-specific language.是不特定语言So in my case, you know,以我为例,你看;The English Patient; is my most favorite movie ever, ;英国病人;是我,最喜欢的电影but it doesnt work to use that in a profile,但它不适合,放在个人档案里面because thats a superficial data point,因为这是一个,肤浅的数据点and somebody may disagree with me有人可能,会有不同意见and decide they dont want to go out with me并且,决定不和我约会because they didnt like sitting through the three-hour movie.仅仅因为他们不愿意,花三个小时看一场电影Also, optimistic language matters a lot.还有,积极正面的语言很重要So this is a word cloud看这些关键词highlighting the most popular words that were used里面是,最常用的词语by the most popular women,最受欢迎女性,都在用words like ;fun; and ;girl; and ;love.;比如 ;有趣; “女孩”,还有 “爱”And what I realized was not that I had后来,我意识到to dumb down my own profile.没必要写一个,低智商简介Remember, Im somebody who said还记得吗,我说that I speak fluent Japanese and I know JavaScript我能讲流利的日语,并且熟悉网页编码and I was okay with that.这些都,没问题The difference is that its about being more approachable重点是,怎么写,让自己显得更亲切and helping people understand让别人知道,the best way to reach out to you.怎么采取主动And as it turns out, timing is also really, really important.除此之外,时机也非常重要Just because you have access当我们拿到to somebodys mobile phone number别人的,手机号码or their instant message account或者,聊天帐号and its 2 oclock in the morning and you happen to be awake,碰巧凌晨2点还没睡doesnt mean that thats a good time to communicate with those people.也许不是,联系他们的好时机The popular women on these online sites最受欢迎的女性spend an average of 23 hours一般会等 23小时in between each communication.再进行,下一次沟通And thats what we would normally do这也是我们,in the usual process of courtship.约会时的常规And finally, there were the photos.最后,轮到照片了All of the women who were popular所有,受欢迎女性showed some skin.都会,露一些They all looked really great,她们,看起来很棒which turned out to be in sharp contrast形成,鲜明对比的to what I had uploaded.是我当时,上传的照片Once I had all of this information,掌握了,这些信息之后I was able to create a super profile,我建立了一个,超级档案so it was still me,我,还是我but it was me optimized now for this ecosystem.只是,在这个生态系统当中,更优化的我And as it turns out, I did a really good job.事实明,我做得很不错I was the most popular person online.成了婚恋网,最受欢迎的人And as it turns out, lots and lots of men wanted to date me.后来,特别特别多男人想和我约会So I call my mom, I call my sister, I call my grandmother.我又打电话给,妈妈,,和姥姥Im telling them about this fabulous news,告诉她们,这个好消息and they say, ;This is wonderful!她们说 ;真棒 !“How soon are you going out?;“什么时候开始约会呀?;And I said, ;Well, actually, Im not going to go out with anybody.;然后我说 ;嗯,我不会跟任何一个约会的;Because remember, in my scoring system,因为,记得吧,要在计分系统they have to reach a minimum threshold of 700 points,至少达到700分才行and none of them have done that.这些男士们,都还不够They said, ;What? Youre still being too damn picky.;她们就说 ;什么?你还是太挑剔了;Well, not too long after that,然后,没过多久I found this guy, Thevenin,我发现这个人,戴文宁(Thevenin)and he said that he was culturally Jewish,他说他,接受犹太风俗he said that his job was an arctic baby seal hunter,还说他的工作是,猎捕北极小海豹which I thought was very clever.我觉得,这个说法很有意思He talked in detail about travel.他详谈了很多,关于旅行的事He made a lot of really interesting cultural references.引用了各种,有趣的文化He looked and talked exactly like what I wanted,他外表和谈吐,都是我想要的and immediately, he scored 850 points.当场就,拿下850分It was enough for a date.够约会了Three weeks later, we met up in person三个星期之后,我们见面for what turned out to be a 14-hour-long conversation谈了足足14小时that went from coffee shop to restaurant从咖啡店,到餐厅to another coffee shop to another restaurant,到另一家咖啡厅,再到下一家餐厅and when he dropped me back off at my house that night那天晚上,他送我回家之后I re-scored him --我重新评估1,050 points! --1,050分!--thought, you know what,看来this entire time I havent been picky enough.我一直还,不够挑剔Well, a year and a half after that,一年半之后we were non-cruise ship traveling我们去旅游,当然没有坐游船through Petra, Jordan,在约旦的,佩特拉when he got down on his knee and proposed.他单膝下跪,求婚A year after that, we were married,一年之后,我们结婚and about a year and a half after that, our daughter,又过了一年半,我们的女儿Petra, was born.佩特拉,出生了Obviously, Im having a fabulous life, so --可以看到,我很享受这段精人生,不过the question is, what does all of this mean for you?问题是,这一切对你有什么意义?Well, as it turns out, there is an algorithm for love.事实可以明,爱有计算规则Its just not the ones that were being presented with online.但不是我们,在网上看到的那些In fact, its something that you write yourself.而是,你自己写出来的So whether youre looking for a husband or a wife所以无论你要,寻觅另一半or youre trying to find your passion还是,找回or youre trying to start a business,又或者,要创业all you have to really do is figure out your own framework只需要,真真切切地,找出自己的框架and play by your own rules,按自己的规则,进行发挥and feel free to be as picky as you want.爱多挑剔,就多挑剔Well, on my wedding day,最后,在我的婚礼上I had a conversation again with my grandmother,我和姥姥,又谈了一回and she said, ;All right, maybe I was wrong.她说 ;好吧,也许是我错了“It looks like you did come up with“看来,你确实做了”a really, really great system.“一个,很棒很厉害的系统“Now, your matzoh balls.“可是,你的玛索球”They should be fluffy, not hard.;“该松软些,不能太硬了”And Ill take her advice on that.这个意见,我赞成201505/375694成都全瓷冠烤瓷牙医院 Im going to a few strips.我马上会朗读的一些连环漫画。These are, most of these are from a monthly page I do in and architecture and design magazine called Metropolis.它们中的很多都选自我每月刊登在一本关于建筑设计杂志上的小故事。那本杂志叫《登都市》。And the first story is called ;The Faulty Switch.;第一个故事叫做《开关的小瑕疵》。Another beautifully designed new building ruined by the sound of a common wall light switch.又一个设计精良的新建筑被一个再平常不过的电灯开关的启动声给毁了。Its fine during the day when the main rooms are flooded with sunlight.白天的时候一切都很美好,阳光洒满了你的房间。But at dusk everything changes.但当黄昏降临一切都变了。The architect spent hundreds of hours designing the burnished brass switchplates for his new office tower.建筑师愿意花很多时间,为新的办公大楼设计这些抛光的铜制开关板。And then left it to a contractor to install these 79-cent switches behind them.然后让承包商在这些精致的开关板后装上79美分的开关。We know instinctively where to reach when we enter a dark room.我们本能地知道,当我们走进这间黑屋子时,该按哪里打开开关。We automatically throw the little nub of plastic upward.接着,我们就自然而然地把那小小的按钮向上一摁。But the sound we are greeted with,但是,当房间溢满,as the room is bathed in the simulated glow of late-afternoon light,如傍晚阳光般昏暗的光线的时候,那迎接我们的一声响。recalls to mind a dirty mens room in the rear of a Greek coffee shop.却让人想起了一间希腊咖啡店后面那不甚整洁的男洗手间。This sound colors our first impression of any room;it cant be helped.这声响让我们对任何一间房的印象都那样先入为主,改都改不了。But where does this sound,commonly described as a click, come from?但是这我们称之为“咯嗒”的声响到底从何而来呢?201512/417316成都种植牙中心

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