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  • A SURVEY by a matrimonial website has sparked online debate about who should control the finances at home, with a good majority of women insisting that men should ;hand in; their salaries after marriage.婚介网站的一项调查引发了网上大讨论:谁应该在家里掌控财政大权,很大一部分女性坚持认为男人结婚后应该“上交”薪水。Baihe.com interviewed over 50,000 youngsters, mainly those born after 1980.百合网访问了5万名年轻人,主要是那些1980年之后出生的。It found that about 53.2 percent of women want men to give them their salary cards to run the house with only 17.9 percent men agreeing with that.它发现大约53.2%的女性希望男人给他们工资卡去经营生活,只有17.9%的男人对此同意。On the other hand, nearly 30 percent of male respondents said they needed the economic freedom at home and would not hand over their monthly pay.另一方面,近30%的男性受访者表示他们在家里需要经济自由,不会交出他们的月薪。The survey also revealed that about 34.3 percent of women - as against 25.6 percent men - were willing to stash away some money for their personal use. Not surprisingly, nearly 80 percent women said they wanted their husbands to be earning double than them. About 18 percent wished that figure to be three times more.此外调查显示约34.3%的女性以及25.6%的男性————愿意藏些私房钱为他们自己使用。不令人惊讶的是,近80%的女性表示他们希望自己丈夫的薪水是比他们的两倍。大约18%的女性希望是其三倍。Also, many didn#39;t want their partners to work in the entertainment business. Freelancers, flight attendants and tour guides were other fields of work that had few supporters.同时,许多人不希望他们伴侣在行业工作。自由职业者、空乘人员和导游也是几乎没有多少持者的行业。Weibo.com was abuzz after the release of the survey.调查发布后微一阵沸腾。;I think husbands should volunteer to hand in their salary cards so they don#39;t spend it unwisely or support mistresses,; said a netizen named Nancy.“我认为丈夫应该自愿交出工资卡,这样他们就不会乱花钱或去养情妇,”一位网友南希说。Another said it was impossible for him to live with only 500 yuan as monthly expenses.另一个人说每月只有500元对他来说是不可能生活下去的。;So they want their husbands to earn three times more than them and give them all the money? No wonder many of them are still single,; wrote a netizen named Zhen Qiang.“所以她们希望丈夫比她们多赚三倍的钱,然后把所有的钱都给她们吗?难怪她们很多人都还是单身,”网友侦强写道。 /201301/222051。
  • ;Life is really simple, but we insist on making it complicated.;Confucius;世上本无事,庸人自扰之。;孔子;The aspects of things that are most important for us are hidden because of their simplicity and familiarity.;Ludwig Wittgenstein;事物中于我们最重要的方面都由于它们的简单和熟悉而隐蔽不见;路德维希;维特根斯坦I love simplifying my life.我喜欢简化自己的生活。It makes me more effective and life less stressful. It makes me calmer, more energetic and happier.简约的生活能给我减压,让我更适于工作。我会因此变得更冷静,更有活力,更快乐。So today I#39;d like to share 42 ways to make your life simpler. I hope you#39;ll find something inspiring and helpful among these tips.因此,今天我要分享简化生活的42个办法。希望大家能在这些办法中找到一些能激发你的有用建议。1. Mix things up. Try the opposite. Have the vegetarian dish if you always go for the meat. Walk away from a stupid conflict instead of making it worse. Let one thing go if you often cling to things. Make a habit of mixing things up to grow your life in small or bigger ways. And to make it easier and simpler to step out of your comfort zone in general when you really need to.1.换个套路试试。去尝试下与你习惯相反的事物,如果你老是吃肉那就试试素食;不要持续无谓的冲突,趁事情变得更坏之前立即停止;如果经常抓着事情不放那就让它过去吧。在成长的过程中要养成这种习惯,能用各种不同方法去解决问题。同时要不断简化解决办法,提醒自己要步出习惯舒适区。2. Get up 20 minutes earlier. This will help you to reduce stress in the morning and during the rest of the day.2.提前20分钟起床。这将有助你在整个清晨和白天都减少压力。3. Be 10 minutes early for meetings and appointments. This will help you to make your time of travel a time of rest and relaxation instead of stressful. And you will not be late.3.提前10分钟到场参加会议或赴约。这会使你的行程有一段休息放松时间,否则你可能会感觉紧张。而且你也不会迟到。4. Single-task. You be more focused, less stressed and get to done more quickly. So do one thing at a time and do it with your full attention.4.一次只做一件事。这样你会集中精力去完成,而且不会背负压力,完成速度更快。因此一次只做一件工作,并且要全力以赴。5. Ask yourself: am I keeping things extremely simple? If not, figure out how you can do that in the situation you are in.5.问问自己:我是在简化这个问题吗?如果不是,找出在这种情况下你怎样才能简化问题。6. Ask yourself: will this matter 5 years from now? Or even 5 weeks from now? Do this to avoid making mountains out of molehills.6.问问自己:这件事真的有那么严重吗?或者根本没你想的那么可怕。这样做可以避免小题大做。7. Buy things with the money you have earned and saved. Avoid getting into debt.7.用你的存款或薪水去购物。这样不会负债。8. Learn a few recipes and cook. You#39;ll save money and probably eat healthier.8.学样新的食谱。这会给你省钱而且让你吃的更健康。9. When you cook, cook more than you#39;ll eat. This will help you to spend less time on cooking and washing dishes. And you#39;ll have an extra dinner or two to just reheat when you don#39;t have time or energy to cook.9.如果做饭的话,那就多做一点。这将有助于你不必花那么多时间做饭和洗碗。当你没时间或者没精力做饭的时候,热热饭菜来顿加餐就行了。10. Write things down. Pretty much everyone#39;s memory is leaky. So help yourself. Write down what you need to do or shop for today. Write down what your top 4 priorities in life are and post that note where you can see it every day.10.把事情记下来。几乎每个人都有忘事的时候,那么帮帮你自己,当你今天需要购物或者做什么事的时候记下来写在本子上。把你生活中最先要做的4件事写在便利贴上,贴在你每天都容易看到的地方。11. Remember that life is larger than you may think it is. You do not know everything and you are not always right. Remembering this makes it easier for me to learn things, to accept other viewpoints, to create changes and to stay more open.11.谨记生活比你想象的广阔。你不一定懂所有的事情,你也不会总是对的。谨记这个,可以让我愿意去学一些新的东西,接受别人的观点,做出改变,保持坦率。12. Risk making mistakes. Learn from them. Then do again with that helpful new experience and knowledge in mind.12.敢于冒出错的风险,然后从中吸取教训。当你有了有用的经验和知识以后,就可以重复这项工作了。13. Do what YOU really, really, really want to do. Do not get stuck in trying to live someone else#39;s dream.13.做你真正,真正,真正想做的事情。不要为了实现别人的梦而痛苦的活着。14. Go grocery shopping once a week. You#39;ll save money and time if you make the effort to plan for a week and to shop for it all at once.14.一周去一次杂货店。在去购物前如果你能列出计划,在购物时一次买清将为你节省时间和钱。15. Go grocery shopping when you not hungry. You#39;ll buy more healthy food instead of impulse buying yourself through the store.15.趁还不饿的时候去杂货店。这时候你会买更健康的食物而不是冲动性购买。16. Enjoy the simple pleasures. An apple, the latest episode of your favorite show, fresh and clean bed sheets, a hug and kiss, holding hands, the sun and blossoming nature after a long and cold winter.16.享受简单的乐趣。一个苹果,你心爱的电视剧集更新,刚换的干净床单,一个拥抱一个吻,牵手,漫长的严冬过后温暖的阳光和充满生机的大自然。17. Have a glass of water. Instead of eating when you are bored or when are having a craving have 1-2 glasses of water. This will help you to keep to those cravings away until the next meal and to maintain your health and weight.17.喝一杯水。当你烦闷或者想吃东西的时候不要立刻吃东西,试着喝一两杯水。这将帮助你赶走食欲,直到正餐时间。这样有利于你保持苗条和健康。18. Eat slower. Make your lunch time a time of relaxation rather than a time to just add to the stress of your morning. Try putting down the fork between bites to slow down the eating.18.慢食。把你的午饭时间变成一种放松和享受,而不是整个忙碌早晨的延续。试着在夹菜和咀嚼的过程中放下叉子,这能让你减少吃饭速度。19. Be kind. Be kind to other people and especially to yourself.19.善意待人。善意对待别人,特别是自己。 /201203/174746。
  • In Denmark, happiness comes from equality; in Singapore,happinesscomes from the rule of law; in the slums of Calcutta, India,happiness comes from the hearts of people that depends on eachother.丹麦人的幸福感源于平等;新加坡人的幸福感源于法律;印度加尔各答贫民窟的人的幸福感源于相互依靠彼此的心。It is not difficult to see, whether a personis happy or not,largely depends on two aspects. One is external, that is thesocialenvironment we live in; the other is internal, that is ourpersonalattitude to life. Today, we (Chinese people) are not happy,also can beanalyzed in several aspects.不难发现,一个人幸福与否,更多地取决于这两个方面:一个是外部的,即我们居住的社会大环境;另一个是内部的,即我们自己对待生活得态度。现在我们中国人感到不幸福,也可以分析为以下几个方面。1.Lack of faith (beliefs)1.缺乏信念。Most people do not know what the expectationsare in one#39;s wholelife, simply put it, you do not know what you want.Confucius atecoarse rice, drank water, didn#39;t even have pillows when sleepingandused his arms as pillows, but Confucius said, ;Happiness iswithin;; Hesaid, ;A basket of cooked rice, a ladle of water, livingin the ghetto alley;,others might think this is an unbearable life,but Confucius was able to ;keephis happiness;. Why? Because he knewwhat he is pursuing in this life.许多人都不知道他人生中最期待的是什么,仅仅放下,你不知道你想要什么。孔子吃糙米喝水,甚至睡觉都没有枕头,而仅仅以手臂为枕,但孔夫子说,;乐亦在其中矣;;他说:;饭疏食,饮水,曲肱而枕之;,其他人可能认为这是不能忍受的生活,但孔子却能;保持幸福;。为什么呢?因为他知道他追求的就是这种生活。2.Always comparing2.老是比较。Western saying goes, Whether a person isfortunate or not, happyor not, does not depend on how big of accomplishmenthe/she hasachieved, but from the way how the neighbors look at them. Whenwhatwe are pursuing is not happiness, but to be happier thanothers, then happinesswill be even further away from us.西方谚语说,一个人是否幸运,是否快乐,不取决于他取得了多大的成就,而是他的邻居怎么看他。一旦我们追求的不是如何幸福,而是怎么比别人幸福时,幸福反而会更加远离我们。3.Living in happiness without realizing it3.生在福中不知福。If a light has been constantly lit, you willnot pay attention toit, but if it is brighter and darker at times, or if it ison andoff at times, you will notice. Similarly, sometimes we are enviedbyothers, but we hardly notice it. Only if one day we loss that,then we willrealize.如果灯被点亮,你就不会去注意它,如果它时亮时暗或者时关时开,你就会注意到它。同样道理,有时我们被别人艳羡,我们不大发觉。可一旦某天失去了,我们就会察觉。4.Not moved by beautiful things4.缺乏发现美的眼睛。;The spring wind is so selfless, not askingfor anything inreturn but blossomed millions of flowers。; We may not havetheability to create beauty, but have we been appreciating thebeauty of nature,or the beautiful things created by others? Weoften ignore and unaware of thenatural beauty, artistic beauty,spiritual beauty and many beautiful things inlife around us.;春风如此无私,不问索取,却使得遍地花开。;我们可能不能创造美,但可以欣赏自然美,或者其他人创造的美。我们常常忽视或不了解自然之美、艺术之美,精神之美以及一切我们身边美好的事物。5.Do not know how to give5.不知奉献。Zhang Shangying from Song dynasty said,;Nothing is happier thanbeing happy of doing good deeds;, only a person whoknows how togive rather than just take can be truly happy. Charity is notaprivilege of the rich. Donating millions to disaster relief ischarity, give astranger a smile is also charity.宋朝的张商英曾说,;没有比做好事更快乐的了。;只有当一个人懂得给予而不是一味索取的时候才会感到真正的快乐。慈善不是富人的特权。捐献几百万救灾是慈善,给陌生人个微笑也是慈善。6.Not being content6.不知足。How much does a person need to be satisfied?Never enough!一个人什么时候才能满足?永远不会满足。When you are not happy because you don#39;t haveshoes, have younoticed those who do not have feet? Contentmentbringshappiness.当你不满足是因为你没有一双鞋的时候,你注意到有些人没有穿鞋的脚了吗?知足常乐。Harold Albert is the academic director of the University ofCalifornia. Once he walked on the streetfull of dissatisfaction andconfusion because he had aly lost his job andwas looking fornew work. He walked in the road like a depressed person,completelylost confidence and courage.HaroldAlbert是加州大学的教务处主任。有次,他曾满怀不满和困惑地走在街头,因为他丢了工作,在找新的工作。他走在路上像个沮丧的人,失去了信心和勇气。Just then, a man with no legs came, sitting ona small woodenplatform which was attached with wheels from old skates. Hecarried2 pieces of wood and wheeled himself across the street.就在这时,一个没有腿的人经过,坐在一个附着在旧溜冰轮子的木头平板上,带着两片木头,滑过街道。When Harold saw him, he had just crossed thestreet, trying toraise himself a few inches to get on the pavement. Harold#39;seyes methis, the disabled man said happily, ;Good morning! Sr. Nicemorningweather, is not it?; At the time Harold felt a strange senseof satisfaction.He thought, I have 2 legs, he has no legs, but heis so happy, what reason do Ihave to be upset? So Harold becamemore confident, and went on happily.Harold发现了他,他刚穿过街,试着把自己举高几英寸以登上人行道。他们四目相对,那个残疾人高兴地说:;早上好!早上天气真好,不是吗?;这时Harold感到一种莫名的满足。他想,他有两条腿,而他却没有腿,但他仍然开心,他又有什么理由心烦呢?所以,Harold变得更加自信,快乐地生活着。7.Anxiety is everywhere7.无处不焦虑。Anxiety of safety, wealth, health and anxietyof children#39;seducation and employment… Only a person who is carefree canbehappy.担心安全、财富、健康,担心孩子的教育问题和工作……只有当一个人不焦虑时才能幸福快乐。8.Too much pressure/stress8.压力过大。Political pressure, pressure from work,family, emotional stress,financial stress, interpersonal pressure,psychological pressure andphysical pressure.政治压力,工作、家庭压力,情绪上的压力,经济压力,人际关系压力,心理和生理压力。9.Standards are too high9.标准太高。Using person#39;s own standard to demand others;If I can, why can#39;tyou?;用自己的标准去要求他人,;我能做到,为什么你不能?;Using other#39;s standard to demand oneself, ;Ifhe can, why can#39;tI?;用他人的标准来要求自己,;他能做到,为什么我不能?;10.Not being oneself10.不能做回自己。A person who becomes a good son, a goodhusband, a good father, agood friend, a good partner… but if a person cannotbecome someonethat himself/herself desires, always fighting with oneself,thenthis person has no balance, and naturally, it is difficult forhim/her to betruly happy.一个人能做到好儿子,好爸爸,好朋友,好伴侣,但是如果一个人不能做到他想做到的,老是和自己斗争,那么他就平衡不了,自然很难让他自己真正快乐起来。 /201207/191292。
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